Afraid of a "Dad throws a chair across the room" fight over 20 oz pop bottle
Background:
As I have mentioned previously, my Dad doesn't like me or my sister who doesn't live with us, drinking pop to often. I go to a volunteer job once a week and since I already have had orange juice w/ breakfast. And the "Sparking" water drinks that originally had been my water drinks (Aka Bubbly) - have turned into non-lunch drinks. So i need to have something to drink for lunch so I buy: pop, apple juice or chocolate milk, and the occasionally small milkshake to drink for lunch. And he and I get along like two goats with horns that are ramming each other. Like back when I still used a plastic plate- I had leftovers of my quesadilla filling from the previous Friday or whatever- I put it on like toast or something- and he and I had a huge fight about it to the point he throw a chair across the dinning room- (https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/General_2449/MomhadtotellDadoffabouthisbehaviouragain_380253/) and there's other problems like "having too much cheese" on a cheese sandwhich, bullying me on to a scale, thinking that I can get a lunch for $5 or less (in 2016) and I should "take a water bottle or buy water" at the mall and how "mom buys water" and how he didn't believe me when I told him in 2014 that I hadn't "acted childish" and "been uninvited" to the cast party -and a who host of other problems.
Story
Today I went to my volunteer job as usually on Wednesday and I'm back around 10:45am. Dad's sitting at the table reading the newspaper I get changed and I do my online stuff before going down to lunch at about 11:45am. He's still sitting at the table still reading the paper and it's been an hour later. My main problem was that I was afraid he and I would get into another Dad-throws-the-chair- into- the-books-and-stuff-behind-it because I brought up Cola I bought some weeks ago to have for lunch and "I just ate out last night". Luckily it didn't happen but with Dad still at the table reading- there was a huge chance there would have been a problem.
Might add the old thread as well: https://www.7cups.com/forum/relationships/General_2449/AnxietyfrompastissueswithclosefamilymembersDadsister_314072/
But with how nasty he has been to me. IT's any wonder why I'm accidently nasty to Mom due to him and Luna. And also is it any wonder why I want to get away from him so much because of how much of a pain he is?
@Amanda84
@Disneywoman
I'm sorry this is a constant source of pain for you 😔💚
