Always her way
It's always what she wants, and basically almost never what I want unless it's what she wants also. It doesn't feel like a two-way street but more like her way or the highway. I spoiled her in the beginning with many blessings and surprises and things that she wanted and liked, so maybe I am experiencing a product of my own doing. But either way it's really hard, especially when we have plans and then she decides she wants to change them at the last minute and I am either okay with it or it causes a huge fight. I love her so much, but it's hard feeling like my feelings or thoughts don't matter in the grand scheme of things.
@blueTiger3807
A relationship is a partnership when it is out of alignment and one person is only getting their needs/ wants met that is a sign of the beginning of the end.
Maybe when we let a partner get their way in beginning of relationship or during a down time or when they are going through something etc.... they like it going their way and want it to continue .... when we let it go on it is harder to gain a balance back.
If you want to save the relationship you will need to have a real blunt discussion and state your needs and expectations in the relationship as well ............that when you have plans you will go if she wants to change she can spend time alone.
This is when the "I Feel " statement option works .............saying "I feel like we seem to only do things you want to and my choices seem to not matter" this does not place blame but lets her know this is how you see it.
Of course there will be push back no one wants to give up having it their way all the time....... if you cave in this will eventually reach a point where you have given all you can.