Anxious attachment style
I have Anxious attachment style, and i really struggle to keep a relationship going since im in a constantn need of contacting and being with that person, does anyone else have this style and how do you keep it cool ? A girl im dating now is a Anxious avoident attachment, so we are like sky and earth apart, she wants to be loved but runs when she feels it, and i want to be loved and hurt when the love distances itself
@constantLover
Thank you for your honesty.
It's about having an open and honest conversation.
It's not always easy but you both have to find a way that allows both of your needs to be met and boundaries respected.
If you want to be together , then it's important to lay the groundwork 💕💜
My friend I am too this style and it's not easy.
If possible therapy dig into roots of that cause ( usually parents) and work on it. Understanding it question it and try realize you don't have behave that way to be loved.
Warning thou having an avoidant style partner is extremely hard. You both need to work on yourselves. She's the opposite of you and in that strange opposite attract way but you will trigger each others relations anxieties. It's not going to be easy and needs a lot of work on both sides.
I genuinely hope for the best for you.
