Anyone to tal? Divorce, anxiety, one of kids with syndrome and skin cancer of ex wife?
So we were together for 17 years. Now im 34. 11 in merriage. Have two girls ( 5 and 7 years). The older one has digeorgeo syndrome. Before the kids we went through ex wifes skin cancer. Every moment, every day m family supported her, I was there everytime she needed. And after that she got divorced with me... and a month after she has engaged with another man who she calls a new dad in front of my girls... we had our own house with yard, cars, jobs, everything... especially i supported my girls with syndrome, being and doing everything at the critical moments... and now someone sleeps with my ex wife ( after a month of divorce)... and even smiles in my face while seeing the tears in my eyes... after all i gave... how? Why? Anyone went through somethong llike that? :(
@andzej
Hello. I am sorry for the belated response. I saw your message, but then a forum software glitch happened and I was unable to find it again.
It is very sad to hear about your feelings of being cheated, underappreciated, rejected and disappointed. The world is just unfair sometimes, and it must be especially painful for you to hear your daughters saying "daddy" to a complete stranger.
But I also have the impression it all happened too quick. Had you got any signs of your wife preparing to the divorce decision and to her "new life" before it actually happened?
You mentioned several things that were valid and present in your marriage. But do you think something was missing?