Being avoidant
Hello I've a problem. I get really avoidant and dry to my partner everytime I'm jealous. I really want to end being dry and avoidant but I don't know how. Pls help
@communicativeApple9560
can you just admit you are jealous of something and skip the avoidant part? so many issues can be deflated if we just speak up.
so many things in our lives come down to communication ... when we do things like silent treatment or avoidant and yet they take awhile to get the drift that is more a signal to us ... that we need to step up in the conversation....
Yessss I understand ur point communication is important . But I get jealous because of such little things I don't need to get jealous about so it feels like it's not necessary to talk abt it because I need to fix it by myself anyway. I rlly hope that made sense haha feel free to change my mind with ur opinion because I rlly do need advice and I'm open for it.
If I were you I’d avoid or keep my distance from your partner till you are comfortable and ready to talk about everything that needs to be discussed and understood by both sides in order for the problem or problems to be solved so the relationship can move forward.
