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Betrayal

So my bf of 8 months broke up with me and i was trying to move on from it but its barely been a week and i learn that he's with the girl who he told me was his best friend. I cant process this information because it makes me think whether they were secretly together behind my back or smthg and if that's why he wanted to break up so bad.. the feeling of betrayal and the fact that he's enjoying with his new gf while im struggling is killing me alive.

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree June 23rd

@emotionalLion3594 

It's beating you up to feel like he betrayed you.. Maybe he did,  only they know? But it's definitely a slap in the face though how he moved on so conveniently.  

It's his loss, never doubt yourself.. He didn't realize what he had..🌲

User Profile: Marissani
Marissani June 23rd

That sounds like a lot of emotions to struggle with around one situation. I hope you have a good support network that you can lean on to help you get through this challenging time.

User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 June 24th

@emotionalLion3594

         I am sorry you are going thru this.

I am sorry he was so selfish in perhaps dating you while working on building a relationship with his "Best friend".  He obviously showed little consideration of how you would take it.  This is not a reflection on you but on him.    

I hope you take time for you take this as a learning event and go into your next relationship whenever you are ready with eyes wide open.  no one is keeping score of how long until you are ready to date again. 

User Profile: SEA777
SEA777 June 24th

You are the best

You have not gotten the best guy like you....

So, let him go

You, move on...

User Profile: SEA777
SEA777 June 24th

You are the best

You have not gotten the best guy like you....

So, let him go

You, move on...