Bf would rather hangout with his girl best friend.
So my boyfriend thinks that his girl best friend is more entertaining and fun than I, his girlfriend. He has once said that I am too competitive and serious before so I tried to be less and more joking but it seemed like no difference.
Anyway, he hangs out with his girl best friend that dislikes me and refuses to be around me almost all the time. I’ve expressed how weird and boundary crossing that is and I was reassured but also my feelings for that was pushed to the side.
moral of the story should I stay or not? He’s not a bad guy but the way he continues to not take action on what’s uncomfortable is very telling of where he stands between me and his girl best friend. If he told me he was weird about one of my guy friends I’d stop contacting that friend for my partners comfort no question asked. He’s unwillingly to even acknowledge that his girl best friend is in the wrong.
@discreetMango7530 Hi there, Mango. I hear you. I can imagine how frustrted it must be for you to be pushed aside by your partner, and not being a priority. Your feelings are valid, and it's important to feel valued, respected and heard in a relationship. It's really distressing that your feelings are not being prioritized. Relationships are built on mutual respect and valuing each other, and it's understandable to expect that from your partner. Deciding whether or not to stay is up to you, but it's worth taking your values and the situation of the entire relationship into consideration when making that decision.
You need to break up, it's very evident. When someone is in a relationship, the feelings of the partner must be held more valuable than any friendship especially when the reasons are so valid as in your case. Friendships with the opposite sex is absolutely fine but it should be within boundaries which he clearly doesn't respect. He also shouldn't agree with people who disrespect you which I assume that girl bsf does
