Breaking my own heart
So this guy and I started dating in October of 2023. We were together for six months but it was a whirl wind of a relationship and ended badly. However even start we’re broke up, he was always on my mind. He ended up dating someone and i was with someone too. Both of those relationships ended and we reconnected. However, when he told me about his ex he made it sound like it was this horrible relationship. I was scrolling through his *** posts and there’s a slideshow of them being super cute and part of the caption says that he’s so excited for the family they’re forming. Idk I feel like I’ve been lied to and I don’t want go bed hurt again. There were a lot of little lies and different things that he would stretch the truth about but I thought maybe it as all in my head. He’s been very sweet and has been trying to do things better in certain aspects but I feel nose like maybe it’s just love bombing and I fell for it again.
@wittyIdea4478 Hey, I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. What you’re going through sounds incredibly painful, especially when your heart was open and trusting. It’s hard when someone’s words don’t match their past actions. You’re not crazy, your instincts are valid, and it’s okay to question things that don’t feel right. You deserve honesty, consistency, and a love that doesn’t leave you second guessing. Please be kind to yourself through this, healing takes time, and you’re not alone
@wittyIdea4478
It is all about how a person views it.
You seem to take a social media post as reality and he lied to you .... what if he did not lie to you but social was fake. If a relationship works you should be able to ask about posts and discuss. many do not speak as it looks like you were digging for something.
The more someone shares the harder it is to keep lies straight. if you fell for some love bomb it is because you want this perhaps take a step back and think it through.
Many many people lie and make cute posts that are fabricated. Often when trying to salvage a bad or failing relationship. For every cheesy photo and # there can be real problems not shown on their socials.
