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User Profile: broke3nS0ul
broke3nS0ul December 30th, 2025

Im going through a breakup one with no closure last week i was asked for space,i gave the space i was excited to meet up with her as i reflected a lot during space and when the day came i received a message saying her decision is made and no longer want to be in the relationship i was confused and the more i fought the more cold she got i fought for her for 2 days and would be threatened that she will block me..i eventually just deleted all social media and we have been in no contact for 5 days its hard for me not to reach out I'm staying strong..we been together two and a half years and lived together for 2years..she has a step daughter which i took as my own took two years to build her child's trust and love...our daily routines haunt me we did everything together and she just left..i remember the day she left she hugged me and said i love you..and when she was gone she got cold and everything I'm so confused...her last voice note while crying was i did love you i never meant to hurt you...I've been going through so much its so sad feels like i lost everything just for loving someone the right way

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 31st, 2025

@broke3nS0ul

That's heartbreaking.

To share so much and then for her to not even give you a proper reason.

I'm genuinely sorry you are going through all of this.

I cannot imagine how raw it must feel and how your day seems so empty.

Sending you my genuine best wishes as you navigate through this 💚

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 31st, 2025

@broke3nS0ul

 I am sorry you are going through this. Very tough when a child is involved and you have been living together.

          IMO Sometimes space is not helpful. we think we can review and think about things but often we have Friends or support that often tell us or suggest to just break permanently.  The backing out of seeing you could be her being worried she will want to work on things.   resolving issues takes communication. 

I know when I spoke to "friends " they always jump to I should leave etc.