Breakup mess
my boyfriend of two years broke up with me beavsue of long distance and because he told me he felt differently and that was why he was treating me bad and so that happened and I found out that after 2 weeks of breaking up he got with another girl which literally broke me and so I talked to some friends that I hadn’t talked in a long time about him and what he did to me and just about him in general and I feel like a did talk about him and I feel so bad about it but another problem that came up is that those friends got mad at me because the said that I only talked to them so I could vent about him and so I feel bad now because they distanced themselves from me and the problem is that there also friends with him and so now I’m overwhelmed that they might tell him what I said about him and I know I did wrong but I said sorry like 2 times and I don’t know what to do anymore and I just overthink everything and I just feel terrible because I don’t know why I said what I said I guess that I said it in a moment where I was mad and just overwhelmed about the situation but now I don’t know how to fix all of this and so everything can be okay.
@sincereFan2358
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@sincereFan2358
That sounds difficult. Good that you are venting here, at least! It can bring sense of things to write it out and to put it out there. Not everyone can be everyone's side all the time. But I, and we at 7cups, can be on your side, the side of healing in a safe and healthy manner!
@FaithfulSeasons44
...what I think I'm trying to say is I hope everyone tries to heal from their hurt in a way that is with wellness. And I hope good things for your relationship journey. They say time heals all.
@sincereFan2358
Hey it isnt your fault whatsoever we all get mad and do dumb things i know how hard it is to deal with a breakup especially when they leave you for another person. you felt a big mix of emotions and had to express the negativity i really do hope you the best and remember this stuff is normal and it can be hard because i know, I have been through alot of pain and betrayal and my own childhood friend and lover left and cheated on me for a guy i was best friend's with i too got mad and said some pretty nasty stuff but its not your fault. i too go to school and if you want we can discuss this further. i mean it
@diligentApricot6088
and why do these other responses sound like bots :p
@Astrail
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