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User Profile: sensitiveLake7833
sensitiveLake7833 April 11th, 2025

I had a dream around last year iirc wherein I asked Jesus if my bf is the one for me and He said that my bf will take care of me.

after an argument with my bf, I apologized for getting so mad. when I mentioned that story to him he told me to “Believe In Him” . The next day, he said that he doesn’t love me anymore but there might still be hope for him loving me. I am confused please help

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User Profile: cheerfulIceCream
cheerfulIceCream April 30th, 2025

@sensitiveLake7833
Hullo there lake! I hope you are doing okay since your last post, as you mentioned going through a tough situation in your relationship and being confused, last year?

The timeline is a bit confusing so i'm sorry if i get it wrong,

To address your dream, scientifically there are many theories explaining how dreams work,
One of em is that dreams work like psychotherapy and help process our emotions,
From what i understand, you had the dream after am argument with your bf, so it could have been your brains way of  generating comfort.
You can read more about dreams here if you'd like,

I know that from religious perspective dreams have deeper meaning and are believed to be signs from God,  however there's no way we can verify if the dream was Gods message or our minds creation so there's that,

If you are open to suggestions, don't put too much value in the dream,
You can consider discussing couples therapy with you bf, please don't forget to take care of yourself amidst all this,

Wishing you the best, : )
User Profile: amusing100
amusing100 April 30th, 2025

I had a similar situation happen to me. I asked God for a sign if the person I’m meant to be with is my person and I received that sign. 7 months later he decided to walk away from the relationship so that I could “grow” and I offered to grow together rather than apart but he chose to grow apart. Now I’m left with confusion because I asked for a sign, received it, and then he removed himself from my life. Now I’m just trusting the process and putting all my faith in God to lead me the right direction.

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User Profile: sensitiveLake7833
sensitiveLake7833 OP May 2nd, 2025

wow this opens up a whole new perspective for me. I wonder why, maybe God will put you back with that person someday when the time is right?

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User Profile: sensitiveLake7833
sensitiveLake7833 OP May 2nd, 2025

I received another dream last night where Jesus told me to stay in the relationship.

User Profile: sensitiveLake7833
sensitiveLake7833 OP May 2nd, 2025

but my bf asked if it was to stay or stay out. I told him it was to stay. but he’s feeling confused because he thinks he is a bad person

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