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User Profile: diligentMap898
diligentMap898 August 11th

Im in a relationship and were really close to our 1 year mark but for the past few months i keep having this thought about breaking up. I really don't want to and i love him so much but i feel i could be doing more with my life or my summer. I don't want either of us to get hurt but i think its just me unhappy in our relationship. Hes so in love with me it crazy. Were both still so young and i feel like im tied down and cant explore anything about who i am.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 August 12th

@diligentMap898

😔

I can see you care about him.

And it's hard if he loves you.

It's not a case of could you be doing more, but if you honestly aren't feeling this relationship, that doesn't make you a bad person, but you have to be honest because the longer it goes on , both of you only get more hurt 💛

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 August 12th

@diligentMap898

we can have love for someone, but it is not really in love.  we do not want to hurt them, but it will only hurt yourself by not being honest about wanting to do things and not feel tied down or obligated. 

it is easier now then down the road when the need for you to break free may grow stronger and stronger.