Certain my wife cheated. She says nothing happened.
I found sexual text and posts between them by accident. Long story short . We had a small argument and she left to go to our friends house. Then had the guy pick her up and disappear for over 3 hours. She says they talked about our relationship.
@lukaValo
Well on surface it can look bad ....texts can be a bad sign..... but also sometimes not what we think...
honestly when i had relationship issues i found a male friends perspective a bigger help then my girlfriends who said the same things over and over. ...
so there is a possibility she was discussing the issues of your situation. The bigger elephant in the room is what are the issues in your relationship? Most people never stray or even appear to unless things are NOT going well.
How do you feel about your marriage do you want it anymore or is this a good " gotcha fight" to end things and walk away feeling like you were wronged?
If you are certain... as you say ... i am sorry you are facing this and the road ahead is not a smooth one. good luck.
I just want honesty. All she would have to say is yes they did hook up. We worked out alot of issues. She is not justified but I hate lies more than anything. If she is actually telling the truth. I'll never fully believe nothing happened.
@lukaValo
So you hate lies more then anything .......but if she tells you nothing happened you still believe it is a lie.
Is that not an issue to deal with ? ...
if i was confronted and told someone the truth and they still did not believe me it would create serious trust issues for future and not wanting to tell the truth to my partner if he still believes i am lying.
I agree. I was wrong. She was with the she watches play with himself for over 5 hours secretly.
@lukaValo
That is different but seems like a deep subject for you both to understand
Best wishes all works out!