Change
I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now. We just got into our worst fight yet. I know I struggle with depression and anxiety and its been effecting our relationship. I will admit I have said things in the past such as I will leave and comparing him to my exes. I know he isn't like any of that. But my brain says other. But I know in my heart he loves me. I have also said before multiple times I wanted to change and I didn't take initiative. These feelings feel different this time. He kept asking me why it was different and I couldn't explain it. I do want to change thise time. 100% I do and I mean it. But I have hurt him so much already...I need advice..
@emotionalKite9796
I believe in you, that you want more out of your relationship. I hope in time you realize how to approach things better and make your relationship shine..🌲
@emotionalKite9796
if you want to change examine your feelings and the change is for you not him.
otherwise, you will not stay motivated. Sometimes when we make big change, we have to face some things we may not like about ourselves or the life we are living in the moment.
Both of you direct your lives towards a higher cause higher purpose. When a greater mission becomes primary, these concerns naturally lose their importance
