Destroying someone when I date them?
Hello. I met a girl and we are reallyyy crushing on eachother and like eachother but I can't start dating her because I recently just got out of a relationship. I feel like it's too soon to jump into the next relationship.( it's been 5 months ) what you yall think about that ? And also because I'm scared to date now because my last relationship wasn't the best. I'm a little "damaged" when it comes to the whole relationship thing. I'm really anxious avoidant or something like that and I'm scared that I will destroy the girl with being a little weird. I reallyy like her. Sometimes i wish I would have met her a little later.
I told her that I can't date now because I recently got out relationship and she's really understanding , but I'm scared she will think that this annoying. Idk. Thanks for reading I'd be glad abt advice: )
@communicativeApple9560
what is your time frame? you are 5 months out of what you say was a bad relationship ... do good ones that end take longer?
I have said it before and will say it again.. " we cannot schedule when and if we find someone new." ..if we could i bet many who have been single a long time after their last one would have scheduled the replacement by now instead of being lonely.
perhaps this girl is a good one and she may move on ....thinking this "i am getting over a relationship " is a stall tactic or you are not really into her.... Actions speak louder then words.