Did i do a bad thing?
i just broke up cause i was with someone with all of my heart and after 4.5 months he noticed that i texted someone in a dating app on *** at the first of the relationship, but the chat was only “hi, how are you” and “that’s good,” that’s it. that’s all. he broke up, and after 2–3 weeks i tried to fix it, but last night he said, “i don’t want to fix 100%, and i don’t have any feelings for you. i just care about you but not the same way.”
and i was asking how it happened — he said, “that night that i noticed, i stopped loving you.”
it was so weird for me. i was dying last night. i was thinking how he loved me and he doesn’t love me in one night.
@practicalFarm6121
Love at least real love in not something that ENDS with a flip of a switch. if he had said it hurt him or he had questions about where you both are headed fine.... but if his "love" ended because he was mad or surprised by finding old texts ... he is not mature enough to be in a relationship and he has Zero idea what love is at all.
look up the post "gentle reminder" it will say it all