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I finally opened up to my friends about what's been happening with my husband. They all think I should ask for space away from him. They listened to me and made me feel valid for my emotions. Then told me that they had noticed a lot of these behaviors earlier in our relationship.

I don't want to face the truth that I need to give my husband the option, start working on his mental health or I'm going to have to leave. I can't be his emotional punching bag that tries to help him and give him options just for him to ignore me or get upset. 

I don't want to go anywhere. I don't want a new life but I've already kind of told him that things need to get better. I've tried again and again to talk to him and he still won't have an adult conversation with me.

I'm so scared of messing everything up