Divorce
I’ve been with my husband for 7 years and things have always been stressful. Trust has been an issue between us and I’ve been severely depressed for a while. I think my husband is a narcissist but refuses to be seen or even fathom the idea. I haven’t been happy anymore for a while but I just don’t know how to tell him that I want a divorce. I get anxiety attacks just thinking about sitting down and talking with him. How would you all go about this?
@MommyWitch
I think it is a common thing we stay quiet think they will catch the clue that we are not happy / do not trust them/ or overall stressed out... we may try things from our end nothing changes and bam we lose feelings and want out......
if he is unaware of how unhappy and you wanting to leave or if he acts unaware it is better to fight your anxiety and talk about it. i think it goes much better when you do not let it all out and they seem shocked because they did not pay enough attention to see which direction things were going.... be prepared for the (if you fall for it) short lived i will change lets do things together yada yada.
We’ve talked and argued about it a million times, he changes a few things on his end that he feels he should fix but goes right back to the same a week later and always makes me feel like the most terrible person ever
@MommyWitch
You are not the problem if he is not willing to face where your marriage is headed then tell him it is over... They never change unless it is their idea.
He treats me like a child and hardly ever lets me make decisions for myself. I wanted to pierce my nose and he said he’d put a leash on it and yank me around, I pierced it anyways. He’s completely against me wanting to dye my hair. He constantly talks about how I’ve never really had to work a day in my life so I’m just lazy and don’t want to work or do anything (I have a full time job). I talk to him about my trauma from my childhood and he tells me I should just get over it because I don’t live with my parents anymore. The list goes on and on.
@MommyWitch sorry i dont have the answer .but iam going through the same . word by word like what u saying. iam so scard.