Divorce
Hi, I’m not really sure where to start. I’ve been married since 2013. We are separated now have lawyers and all the mess. I’m having trouble coping. My emotions are everywhere. I don’t get a long with anyone but my friends. I hate feeling alone. I hate feeling put down and judged. Keeping it all inside doesn’t help me at all, it makes it way worse. My two young girls are starting to hate living in two different homes. My oldest is 5 and my youngest is 4. They even wanted to start praying that their dad and I get back together and work things out so we can be a real family again. I still have feelings for him but he says he has no feelings for me anymore. 12 years we’ve been married. We would have been married 13 years if we weren’t separated now. He says everything is my fault the reason why we are separated but that’s not true.
@anonyBirch8204
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I'm sorry that you are going through this and hurting so much.
You deserve time to heal.
Time for you.
Not for someone to blame you solely, you deserve someone who loves you.
I know the kids find the living arrangements hard, but in time, they'll adjust, all that matters is that there is no tension or animosity 💕💜
It is really hard on me. I can’t stand to see my kids go through this
@anonyBirch8204
It is hard on everyone when a divorce happens.
is it really past working ON ? sometimes it is and both parties need to look at what is really going on.. in a long marriage we tend to take things for granted including our spouse. We think we have no time we will reconnect or things later or one person is OK with the status quo and the other wants more. have you or are you able to communicate with each other... ? If a lawyer part probably not sadly the hurt or anger blurs the line of how this effects everything.
We still fight, he wants nothing to do with he barely answers me on my family wizard app that the lawyer recommended. I try to ONLY talk about our girls but sometimes I caught myself getting mad at him again for kicking me out of my own house and I speak my mind on the app when I’m not supposed to. The lawyers and judge can see it. I’ve tried everything to fix the issue but as we all know it’s not always one person’s fault. And in our situation it was both of us.
