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This prob not the place but I do not have the money for a councilor! Anyway I don’t know what to do it’s easy to say to leave but how can you live when your life is imbedded with his? I know my time on earth is limited I can feel it ! He keeps putting hands on me and threatening to kill me people will say go to the police but I called before and the operator hung up on me because I was unable to speak I just needed them to hear and come but they hung up on me and the police showed up an hr later ! I’m just worried things will turn very dangerous very fast and my 3 yr old will be here and witness Everything! Please no advice saying just leave it’s not an option for me at the moment!

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Please no negative thoughts either

Please no negative thoughts either

User Profile: Mooniey
Mooniey May 26th

@unassumingGrapes562 Hugs you. I really understand your feeling in this relationship. Leaving sounds easy but you can't, your kid is too young. If you love him, you will know how to deal with his violence. Listener 1-1 can help you find your ay, it's free: https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ 

User Profile: Voceamica
Voceamica May 26th
@unassumingGrapes562“I’m really sorry you’re going through something so frightening. I’m listening to you, and I’m with you in this moment.

What you’re describing sounds very heavy and unfair, and I can understand how trapped and without options you might feel. Especially with your little girl there, it makes everything even harder to cope with.

You don’t have to face all of this alone right now. Try to stay here with me for a moment, just one step at a time. Let’s breathe and try to get through this moment together.”
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Sometimes I wonder if he is possessed because when that anger takes over and he becomes violent he doesn’t look like himself at all eyes all dark no white at all just looks crazy!

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User Profile: Voceamica
Voceamica May 27th
@unassumingGrapes562 Deve essere davvero spaventoso vedere qualcuno cambiare così durante la rabbia. Però non credo sia “posseduto”. Quando alcune persone perdono il controllo possono sembrare completamente diverse, soprattutto negli occhi, nell’espressione e nel modo di comportarsi.

La cosa importante è prendere sul serio la violenza e come ti fa sentire, perché indipendentemente dal motivo nessuno dovrebbe farti paura o farti sentire in pericolo.

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