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Falsely accused of cheating

User Profile: blueHuman1960
blueHuman1960 May 6th, 2025

It’s happens several time. It’s crushed me, put me in a depression and turned my marriage inside out. Constantly angleing spying. Her insecurities have erupted into chaos. I swear she’s projecting.

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maybe putting someone in the middle like a therapies would help soothe her anxiety and help her with her insecurities. It sounds like she’s very anxious about losing you to someone else, that sounds hard for the both of you. I hope you find a solution

maybe putting someone in the middle like a therapies would help soothe her anxiety and help her with her insecurities. It sounds like she’s very anxious about losing you to someone else, that sounds hard for the both of you. I hope you find a solution

User Profile: Jamesquaffle
Jamesquaffle May 7th, 2025

The only thing I can say, is be completely transparent about everything, about how this makes you feel, about what you've been doing and try to get her to say what has put her in this hostility, reassure her in her insecurities and about your loyalty and express that you love no one but her and never could imagine of loving anyone else, a big probability is that this is her own overthinking and insecurities just help her navigate thatand remember that this is just a rough patch, if you truly love each other things will get better

User Profile: agreeableSouth2071
agreeableSouth2071 May 7th, 2025

@blueHuman1960

Has she always been insecure or is this a recent development? 


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User Profile: blueHuman1960
blueHuman1960 OP May 7th, 2025

I think there were some pre existing. We use to do everything together. I hurt my self and started struggling keeping up for a while. She started going off on her own. New friends and running 6 days a week. I slowly wore me down. I started accepting it and made my own routine in my hobby. The distance grew.

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User Profile: agreeableSouth2071
agreeableSouth2071 May 7th, 2025

@blueHuman1960

Be strong and hang in there buddy. 

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