Fearful Avoidant WLW

I am a lesbian and was just broken up with yesterday because she has a fearful avoidant attachment style and I called her out for breadcrumbing me. She is in therapy so I guess that’s good. The first time she brought up not being ready for an exclusive relationship was about a month ago. She said therapy made her realize she’s not ready but she still wants to get to know me. I cautiously agreed thinking she would respect my boundary of moving slow because it was a lot for me to think about in the moment. I tried distancing myself and it was like she was scared I was gone because she kept initiating conversations. That was for about a week. She still initiated up until yesterday but it was very hot/cold. So I finally called her out and she told me again that shes not in a place for a romantic connection and that she didn’t want to keep me in a situation that won’t go anywhere. This is my first experience with a fearful avoidant woman so I’m just confused and heartbroken. I love her more than anything and hope she does the work she needs to do to heal. I have the door open for her but only if she makes an effort to heal in therapy. Just looking for some support or anyone that has been through something similar.