Feelings after Disconnected by Elder Married Son
How I feel at the age of 77 sick with Medical and Mentally sick with 72,ageDiabetic wife, both disabled were dis connected by their Elder Married son after living lifetime together, parent raised their three grand sons, gave up every thing including their biz undocumented and now nowhere. Both are handicap and living under poverty line income with medicare n now living with younger married son n family, where DIL don’t like them and having issues with husband, plus limited income and stability. This all of a sudden disconnection came as Mountains of load on both parents, Specialy the father, who seems to be almost collapsed and become severely depress and anxious plus some major sickness to become, sad, disconnected with his lifetime friends, relatives, social n biz local n international connection and living hopeless and help less life without any intrest taking Medications and therepues but nothing helping. All efforts to reconcile were failed rather further deteriorated, no no near solutions visible except accept it but it’s not easy for father. He remain sad and vulnerable all the time. He is living almost like a dead person. Some comment or advice highly appreciated.
@considerateChestnut4179 What you’re going through is deeply painful, but your love and sacrifices as parents still matter even if the relationship with your elder son is broken right now. Focus on your health, supportive people, and small daily routines that bring peace and purpose.
Thank you Cheer for your kind words.
I’m very weak n sentimental too.
I always gave more value tibrekationsgios then anything else. I never imagined to live away from my son but it’s realty today and I can bear it, admit it. I lost intrest and hope in life. Although I live very busy life childhood in struggling to survive at age 8 tillb27 then grown biz international level till 2015 then gaveup biz to children and started Free volunteering to serve needy and suffering communities locally and internationaly Free of charge. Creat a huge relation ships and contacts, fame and recognition localy and internationally BUT this incident broke and devastated me badly. I don’t know what to da? I did all my best to clarify misunderstanding even unconditional apologies but he look changed person and I nm list. In trying cope takingcantidepresants, sleeping pills therapies but it became treatment resistant so 24/7 physical n mental pains. I m isolated and cutoff from all as remain fearfull to get out if the house inspite all effort. Anyway God is great and knows the best n do the best for all of us.
