Feeling uncomfortable with him
I’m in a relationship with my boyfriend 1 year ago
Last week he said that he’s not falling in love anymore, and he doesn’t feels the same anymore
He doesn’t care about my reaction when he says some things like that, I was crying a lot and asking why? I know I’m not the perfect one, but I really do my best, I try to be the most romantic and supportive person, making his dinner and breakfast every day (we don’t live together)
But I still with him, and I feel so stupid, I feel useless because I think that no matter what I do, nothing will ever be the same again
@goodbyesugar
In the beginning of a relationship there is more of a rush of feelings and in time that does slow down. it is excitement and getting to know each other etc. that level does not last in the same form.
Think of starting new things it is exciting and things feel new in time it becomes routine. Your BF is right about not "falling" in love.......... he should have landed in love. some people instead like the chase and the fun of new and are not ready to build on what happens after the excitement feels comfortable.