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Feeling uncomfortable with partner telling other ppl hot (which ik it's normal)

User Profile: communicativeApple9560
communicativeApple9560 May 29th, 2024

Hello lemme take this short haha. I'm fresh in a new relationship and i need advice on sth. My partner calls other people "handsome" and stuff which Is normal and allowed because i also think other are pretty and stuff. So I know it's normal but a part of me feels uncomfortable with that. I was thinking why and came to the solution that it might be because I feel not got enough to her. But since it's not healthy to feel like that and since its normal when ur partner also find other ppl attractive and handsome and pretty , I really want to fix that so I don't feel uncomfortable with it anymore. Does anyone have anyyy tips or advice on how i do that ? I'd appreciate it really much because I want to be a good and normal partner. Thank you for reading: )

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 May 30th, 2024

@communicativeApple9560

It is normal for people to notice an attractive person etc .... i think you are trying to act cool with it ... even though it bothers you.... the reality is someone noticing really does not take anything away of her being with you.... she may not even know it bothers you....

when someone enters a relationship they chose you..... the whole package attractive and personality etc..... LOOKS are not the end all of why someone is with someone.  i knew better looking guys then my partner but they were not interesting some were shallow and not that bright ....so in the end you pick the most well rounded match.....   

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User Profile: communicativeApple9560
communicativeApple9560 OP May 31st, 2024

Thank you sm for reminding me. I'll try my best to believe that haha : )

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