Finding a healthy relationship
Hello, I'm Jay(22) and I've been having problems finding someone who isn't manipulative. More recently I've been working on all of my red flags and working on myself, but when it comes to finding a boyfriend I haven't been so lucky. No matter how much I work on myself and I apply what I've learned are green flags, there's always big red ones that pop up in the person I'm interested in. The biggest one being that they leave and never talk to me again for one reason or another. I myself am not manipulative, etc. I see no reason for it and it just *ucks people up, so what should I do? I've been trying to wait for someone yo come to me and nothing has worked. And yes I know "you're younger you'll find someone", but I need someone that I can pour all this love into.
@littlefish970
i am not sure of the answer when looking i often came across those whom it would never work... when not looking but almost as if fate i found someone ... with that being said there is almost no way to avoid issues either.
People grow and change and sometimes not at same time or direction. Signs and flags are there at different points in life/ relationships trying to avoid all is learning to be alone.