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Finding the love of my life

User Profile: jjshap28
jjshap28 January 30th, 2024

I feel like im never going to find a girlfriend now. Im out of college and it is hard to meet people. I get sad when i see other couples out in public, on the internet, in commercials etc. it makes my head spin and constantly think about finding love. Im on the dating apps but nothing is working. Ik im young, but i have so much to offer and no one to give to…

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 January 30th, 2024

@jjshap28

i know it sounds silly but it is true so many who are really looking seem to not find someone ...... perhaps your looking for one thing is clouding all other options.  Real love a person may NOT meet all your criteria but when it happens you see things differently. 

 i often find .....what i am want or was looking for when i am not actively seeking it. 


many people i know had zero luck on apps as they were not close to what profile suggested etc and when thinking they would not meet found a person they literally ran into in a gym of was a friend of a friend.   


User Profile: dukeofdearham
dukeofdearham January 31st, 2024

@jjshap28,

I understand. The trick tough is not to try to find. To be happy with yourself. To make yourself feel good about you. People pick up on that , they feel it when you resonate good vibes. And then all of a sudden you, unexpectedly,  run into someone. It's how I met my wife, totally out of the blue.