For Married people only.
How to live with a selfish person, who thinks whatever you say is a lie, whatever good you do is just to show off.?
Person also forgets the positive things and focus on blaming.
And the person don't want to do anything and don't want to take any responsibility.
What would you do in such case?
@Rider210
Lots of questions would need to be answered about the behavior first before making decisions. so I guess get to the bottom of it.
Is this a recent development or was happening before the marriage?
If they assume a person is lying something may have hurt their trust. if they think good done is showing off sounds of jealousy....
focus on blame / inability to see positive / not wanting to do things or take responsibility. seems to deflect their insecurities.
Perhaps they are depressed or having issues, what amount of discussion or perhaps counseling could address that.
Marriage or even friendship IMO needs communication and openness to say when things are bothering a person instead of resorting to the type of behavior your post suggests.
