Friends turned lovers ..
So me and my friend started dating and we had a lot of problems so we split. He said i cheated on him which never happened and that was years ago now we are trying to make things work again but i feel like he love more as a friend then a girlfriend. When we are together he looks at other women and when i say something about it he gets mad at me and bring up how i “cheated” and we just recently got into a big fight about his friend texting him about going to see a girl and he said he didn’t go for the girl but i feel like he did and he’s been very stand offish and he said that im holding him back and i was being controlling im just wondering if I should just move on and leave him alone or should i just keep trying and make him trust me again but i do love him so much and he keeps telling me he love me and he don’t wanna loose me but if i keep acting “THIS WAY “ he’s not going to be around any longer ??? WHAT SHOULD I DO BECAUSE ITS HURTING ME AND MAKE ME FEEL AWAY I DONT WANNA LOOSE MY BEST FRIEND!!
@Camillenila20,
I am sorry for you he keeps persisting in you cheating on him. I don't know where his perception comes from but it's in the past.
If he can't get past it, it means he doesn't trust you, or maybe not himself. And without trust whatever kind of friendship will never work out.
🥺that’s the sad thing I don’t think he trust me and since I don’t think he trust me I don’t really trust him I just seen a message from him to his ex that really hurt me and he told me it wasn’t like that she called him and asked him to flirt with her to make her bf mad which I didn’t find true and I still don’t and I’m so blind that I forgave him and I know I shouldn’t have the messages are very explicit so I wonder if I could put them up here.
@Camillenila20
If he does not trust you and you do not trust him you have already lost your friendship....
I think we better off as friends I feel like we can only be friends
@Camillenila20. Sometimes we think we are right hence not giving time to others to explain them selves to us hence leading into misunderstanding. Why do you think he is lieing to you?
I don’t know because I keep listening to other people of every time I find something or see something he already got an answer or excuse. I also think he be lieing to me because he always bringing up how I “cheated” on him.
