Getting attached to partner when being lonely
Okay so I'm In a kinda fresh relationship and I don't really have friends. I'm really struggling with finding friends. It's a problem for years. So my partner is the only one I talk to everyday and I heard thats not good when the partner is the only one because it can happen that you get attached to your partner. So I'm asking now what to do that this not happens. I'd appreciate help soooo much
@communicativeApple9560
Hello i hear you and have been there .... when we want to have one person to fill many roles it seldom works they get burnt out on it as well and can cause stress....
I hear from so many that they can't find friends or keep them ... have you narrowed down what is the friend issue? I mean some want a perfect fit in a friend ....for example same views on everything and same time available/ same age etc... this clearly limits the field. Are there options you have not considered... I find friends are easy to find if we are more open to people we might not have seen as a friend prospect.
does he have friend and they have GF ? Find an outlet and keep your relationship not your ONLY person to talk to and both of you will be happier.
Hello thank you reallyyy much for your response. The friend issue is there because I've social anxiety and I don't know where to find friends. I mean you can't just walk on the streets and saying "hi let's be friends". And school is over for me.i don't like doing sports either and online friendships break in seconds. : (((