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Getting over someone you never dated

User Profile: Lilachocolatecake
Lilachocolatecake December 27th, 2025

Hey, I have been in love with this guy for over a year now, but he never showed any romantic interest in me, and he recently got into a relationship with another girl, so obviously now I have even less of a chance with him. Does anyone have any tips on how to get over someone you never dated?

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User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree December 27th, 2025

@Lilachocolatecake

User Profile: AsherTree
AsherTree December 27th, 2025

@Lilachocolatecake

i would make it a priority to find another person to focus on.

And talking about it will likely help to because that's the only way i was able to move on.

User Profile: limegreenShip6945
limegreenShip6945 December 27th, 2025

It really takes time it won’t happen overnight, try to keep your distance from them and focus on other things that give you joy. Also being honest and telling yourself that they don’t like you like that works because you so worthy so why waist your time on someone that doesn’t like you back. (and yes when you first start to try to get over them it will be hard be it will be worth it in the long run). Also don’t forget that you have so much worth and don’t feel bad that they didn’t like you back it’s part of life, you deserve love that person just wasn’t the one to give it to you ❤️

User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 December 27th, 2025

@Lilachocolatecake

what did you like about him?  ... what did not know of his real self?   how did you see the situation working if he had no interest that way? 

it is easy to be infatuated by someone but remind yourself while he may have qualities you admire you did not really know the real him.