Girlfirend break up or complication
Hey
I have a realationship with a girl since 5 years. At the beginning i was very young and didnt know what love is and treated our first year like we were friends. So i texted with another girl. That was some years ago now. And my GF now years later, talked to me on tuesday and said she cant think that she can trust me anymore because of the things that happend in the past when we were young. The mistake i maked years ago was before my puberty even kicked in. And we growth over it. Or so i thougt. So now she is saying she dont know if should be together anymore because of the thing that happend years ago.
I changed so much in this years after puberty even, and now shes coming up with that. I dont know how to fix the problem. We saw each other 2 days ago and talked. Everything was back to normal but as i was walking her home she changed mood again really quick. Since then shes ignoring my messages since yesterday. What now? Ignoring too ? Or ..
Thx
@alessio2315
Honestly if she is bringing up something so minor from years ago she is just looking for a way to have you break up with her....
then she can act like she was the dumped one ... instead of trying to make something out of nothing that was a long time ago.
Hi! The situation must be stressful for you.
She might have been looking for reassurance that it won't happen again. If this is the case, then you can have a proper conversation with her when both of you are in a calm state and let her know you care and that was a long time back. Show that she can trust you.
If she still doesn't consider your feelings then you can straight up ask if she's ready to give a chance to your relationship or not. But, I think you need to have a proper conversation about the whole thing first and not when any of you is angry because sometimes things pop up in the head of a person because of own insecurities or fear.
Take your time if she's ignoring you. You don't have to text over and over again. She'll come around if she cares or give it a break for one or two days and then talk.
Hope things work out for you. 🌸
