Going through a breakup
I'm going through a breakup and feel numb. I haven't been able to sleep. We spoke last night and fought. We have been fighting for some months now. I have been sulking all the time asking for his time and attention and for him to do something special. I called him last night asking if we can meet and sort things. First he said yes, then we argued a bit and said he is very clear he doesn't want a relationship with me and he wants to end. I cried cried cried. He said to me that he wants to sleep and would block me so that I don't call ,/ text and bother him through the night. I haven't been able to sleep
We have been fighting for some time now with similar kind of things. I keep going back to him and behave clingy with no self respect
Please help me fix this , I'm feeling very stressed
@greenTree7323 i can see how difficult this situation is for you, friend. i hope you manage to find a way out of this. <3
i am going through this exact thing. i know what i want to hear right now is that things will get better, so just know it does get better. i know its hard being blocked because all you want to do is text him. you are very strong for talking about this. :)
Hello @greenTree7323,
I understand you feel bad and I know it can be a difficult situation.
Try to keep an open mind and remember that everyone handles their emotions and relationships differently and boundaries can vary wildly. While he feels one way you may be feeling another way and there will be collisions in every relationship. I know time feels like it’s your enemy right now but it’s actually quite the opposite. Giving time allows for healing and reflection as well as respects boundaries. I have been divorced for 6 years from the love of my life so I have some experience and in that, I have found time to be the best healer. Keeping your mind and body busy will help tremendously. If you have any hobbies or activities that you enjoy, or friends that tend to keep a positive and fun atmosphere, those are all great options.
There are resources available to you here at 7Cups that can also help you in times of need. Here is a link that may help.
https://www.7cups.com/breakup-advice/
Always remember that you’re never alone in any situation and if you’re going through it, it’s not likely you are the first. You’re a strong person and you’ve already shown it by being here. We are here to listen to you!
Stay strong, you got this!
Thank you so everyone :)
@greenTree7323
i understand the kind of situation you are in but i am unable to understand the help you want from us
1. is it to get over the break-up?
OR
2. is it to help you so that you can be unblocked?
OR
3. or something else entirely?
please tell me, the solution to it would be easy to understand but a little hard to follow . also you need to be atleast 70% sure if you want to do it.until it is answered, i wish you all the best for keeping the courage to share about it.
