Guys tell me I’m not crazy
My boyfriend has been on OmeTv asking girls for things I can’t even say out loud it makes me hurl and I have all the evidence for it but I feel like I need an exact date before I confront him so he has no way to swivel out of it. I’ve contacted the support team and now I’m just waiting but it feels like *** having to sit here and act normal with him. Do you guys consider this cheating? Especially when he told me at the begging of the relationship anything like this is DEFINITELY cheating. lol guys please help 🤣
@considerateCranberry2642
Hello. In the world of today the definition of faithfulness or fidelity has a different meaning than it used to have, but... Your feelings were hurt. You feel your boundaries were broken. What's more, it seems you and this man agreed on what kind of behaviour is a deal breaker.
I believe there is no need for the judge and the evidence. You might have opted for an "open relationship", but I guess this is not the case. Your "internal truth" and your faithfulness to your values are the priority now, I think.
@considerateCranberry2642
I do not think you need exact date etc to just confront him. I think you are looking for one more piece to put off the conversation. If you feel your boundaries have been broken and you do not trust him ... YOU need to speak up with whatever evidence you have. If he tries to swivel out of something it will not matter if you have a date or not. It is about you standing firm on the issue.
Only you know your boundaries and even discussed what was a a deal breaker before. it does not need to be labeled as cheating it is about how you feel.