He dumped me just before our 1 year. Workingonmyself2025
Today would've been our 1 year anniversary.
He dumped me friday. Reason I opened up that I was feeling confused. I got back I'm not the one for you, I hate your anxiety, I don't want your feelings anymore.
He deleted me everywhere. Started adding new woman to his ***. ( no I don't stalk it's private but he only has woman). He ignores me when he sees me. Like today on the street. He just stops turns around and looks at his phone. I wanted to pass but I couldn't. I stopped and asked are you really going to keep ignoring me. He said go. I said really and went on. He didnt even look me in my eyes.
Strangely Thursday he even said to me hiw much he loved me. And that he found it dangerous with me going to the gym because I get more beautiful everyday and guys are looking at me. And that he didnt want to lose me. I told him I only looked at him. And then the next day this.
He also added the one who was like he said texting him to break up with me before. He deleted her and put her back and so on. Till I asked to block her because that wasn't healthy for our relationship. I always said if she comes back I'm leaving he was always laughing. But he added her again. ( and no I dont spy he has a private profile. But I get recommendations and she was back so I knew enough)
I don't know what to do.
I want to go on and live my life. On the other hand I want the say what's on my mind.
I don't know. But it's eating me inside. I already lost 5 kilos.
O and also Friday I told him don't do this you know I moved to your country for us. We both had it difficult with the long distance. And he said to me at the start of this year if you come back I dont want a vacation then you need to live here. So I terminated my business, sold my stuff and moved to his country.
To now end up alone here.
Why do I always pick the wrong ones
@workingonmyself2025
I'm so sorry, you sacrificed so much to be with him.
You deserve better than someone who cannot celebrate the good times and support you in the bad times .
To throw your mental health struggles back in your face.
To ignore you on the street.
To belittle you.
Relationships are built on trust, support, loyalty, we out the work in.
It's not about jealousy.
It's not about dropping someone without warning!
It's hard now and very raw, but you deserve the best and for someone to prioritise you!
Wishing you the best!
💜💕
Waouh that was so perfectly said Amanda!
So sorry dear that you are going through it. No relationship should hurt that much and be that hard. I feel your pain.
Honestly, You can be proud of yourself. You were brave, you tried, move to another country, loved hard but he ended up not being able to live up to the beautiful person you seem to be. You deserve so much more.
My mom said once and it stuck with me: love, it is not about how you feel about them, it is how they make you feel...
You futur happiness depends on the hard decision you will take today. It is hard to leave somebody. It is painful. I cannot imagine how you must feel after everything that happened. I hope you can choose yourself and give your future self a chance to meet the amazing guy you deserve.
Sending lots of love! You are stronger than you think
@workingonmyself2025
I feel for what you’re going through; this situation sounds very difficult and frustrating. It’s natural to feel sadness and anger after all the sacrifices and effort you put into the relationship. Take your time to care for yourself and focus on yourself first you deserve happiness and peace of mind 💚