He just broke up meeting for 1 week only.. After a year of online relationship
We met a year ago through an online application in November of 2023, we used to spend a lot of time together through calls and study together using Google meet when I was on college. After end of college I got a job in Noida. He lso took a college in Noida to be with me to do a post graduation. After he came to Noida we met first time on 7 September 2024, we spent good time with each other. After then for a week, in week days he got busy n finding PG and attending college orientation. We rarely talk to each other. By the next weekend on Friday he asked me to meet. We again met and spend a good time for 2 days. But after that meet of 2nd time he started to ignore me. Not responding of my calls. And yet broke up with me saying that he can't give me time as he want to study now
So in total we were in online relationship for 9 months and 1 week of offline.
It's just so hard for me to keep up on like this.. It's been a week he broke.. I just keep on crying and try to reach out to him sometimes but he always ignore me.
I sometimes cry in my office whenever I miss him.
I feel I'm so lonely so hopeless... But I want to get better I don't want to live a life like this. I know how can I get better. But it's just so hard for me to try to get better.
Allow yourself to grieve the loss; it’s normal to cry and feel a sense of hopelessness. It’s a big adjustment, and feeling sad is part of the healing process. It’s good that you recognize the desire to get better, even if it feels hard right now. Try to lean on friends or family for support, even if it feels difficult. Engaging in activities you enjoy or finding new hobbies can help distract you and lift your spirits over time. Remember, healing isn’t linear, and it’s okay to take your time. You’re not alone in this, and things can get better.
How are you doing now? I can understand how hard this must be for you 😞