Help
My wife after 20 years told me she no longer was in love with me and moved out... I'm still deeply in love with her and she knows it i still do everything for her. Now just going through this has wrecked me but she strings me along just enough for me to think I may be able to get my family back. Fast forward this weekend she invited me out with her and the kids we had a great night she gave me that bit of hope kissed me told me good things and 2 hours later my daughter calls me to come get her because her mom is having sex with some guy in the yard at 3am and that's all she can hear....... This devastated me I can't think straight I'm so hurt that it feels like physical pain idk what to do.
@Jcarter88
Hey, I know nothing i say will take away the pain. I am divorced and it was strongly implied that my wife cheated on me and was unfaithful fully with me. She said it's not true....so I'll go with that. I mention this to let you know that I know your pain....yes, its unbearable. Please be strong. Not just for yourself (cause you deserve happiness too) but for your kids too. Don't do the bad mouthing thing around them ( you sound like the type that already knows not to bad mouth the mother of your children even if she's acting out of character during these hard times) you sound like a loving father and husband. I want you too know that cause your pain in very valid, its very hard. Sometimes overcoming a trial mean you simply endure it. Your story even has me feeling crippled by it. So heart wrenching. Just know. You can be a mess sometimes, your not a robot, so if you need to cry, cry, if you feel lost, feel lost. You'll get back to feeling better again as soon as time passes. And it's okay if it's not easy and you don't have all the answers yet. Follow your heart and know your stronger than the pain your feeling. Your not alone in your pain. Sorry your going through this.
@Jcarter88 Hey. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I'm fresh out of a breakup too, but it's not as bad as this. I can't imagine what you are going through right now.. But know that you are in a good community here. You are not alone. Feel free to reach out to me if you wanna talk about anything and everything. Sending warm hugs!!