Help thanks
Hi all new here, I’ve been feeling unsure what to do in my relationship. We’ve been together for four years. Going really strong never fight or anything but lately I’ve been having feelings grow for one of her good friends. We have so much in common and attraction is there? I just don’t know what to do and I don’t know if she even likes me.
4 years is impressive but you never fight? That's unusual, do you just bury problems or agree all the time?
You say you are going strong but if you are looking elsewhere, I would first address what is lacking in my current relationship..
Is it something superficial? Can you work on it together or do you just want out? Think clearly before you rush a decision.
Maybe you are both unhappy and coasting because it's familiar. I guess I would ask myself, How would I feel if my partner broke up with me?
Would I miss him or be relieved to have my freedom? Best of luck with it because it sounds really confusing.
@ScrabbleBrain
It sounds quite smart and seasoned.
@blueMap4808
Being in a relationship there are always some small disagreements always none means at least one is not expressing themselves. in a relationship there will always be others who might interest us or have more in common at the moment... it only becomes a problem when we start wondering "what if?"
It may show something is missing from your relationship did anything change?
Hey blueMap4808, welcome here. I hear you - 4 years together, no fights, strong... and still feeling unsure is confusing to carry. Thanks for sharing something so vulnerable with us. That uncertainty makes sense when things change inside, even if nothing changed outside.
