Help with my gf
So on December 23 i gave my gf a letter and she told me she was gonna read it later and tbh she always tell me when she read my letters and what she felt but this day she didn’t tell me anything, sometimes i feel like she just tell me that she loves me just because she have to say it. I don’t feel like she is being honest. Today she was acting strange and she told me if everything was good, for me yes but idk her, she didn’t talk to me for 2h until I told her good night and she told me too but i felt her good night very cold, like idk what to do, I don’t want to talk about it because we always have like som misunderstanding and I feel like she’s tired of me, and sometimes she doesn’t understand how I feel and I don’t understand how she feels. I don’t want to ask for time because I’m scare she loose feelings but I don’t know what more I can do. I just feel like she’s tired of me and she doesn’t love me (If this helps we are a wlw couple)
@practicalCar490
not all couples, I would say most are not good communicators.it is a skill to be practiced. speak up and tell her you do not always know how she feels and you feel she may not understand your thoughts or feelings. once it is out there maybe one or both will feel more comfortable in communication.
I will say many of the problems I have had or have seen start with assuming how someone feels or thinks based on if the react like we think they will.
@practicalCar490
I'm really sorry you are feeling like this.
It can be difficult when we cannot open up.
And there's constant miscommunications.
But in a relationship, what you feel matters
It's hard but you need to trust in what you have and trying just bring together, having fun and getting back to showing each other why you got together in the first place 💚😊
I hope everything genuinely works out for you 💚
