Hopless
So my wife of 8 years we did separate for a couple months but got back together she told me that she hasn’t had the same feelings for me for the past 6years in those 6 years we bought a house had a second child and bought another house i have enjoyed every minute and absolutely had no idea she felt this way she still wants to live together and co parent are kids im at a loss of words and dont know what to do she wants space she doesn’t want to talk or anything please someone anyone give me some good advice
@adventurousEast4745
It must have been a real shock. I think more people are in situations like this. one partner does not see the distance growing and the other does not speak up. I am not sure why as holding out and then telling a person you lost feeling a long time ago i can imagine would be horrible to hear. Although I doubt that is ever easy to hear.
We think we would know or see it, but we do not want to see things sometimes. I believe sometimes if we are honest with each other and open to change, we may re-establish some sort of connection. it will be painful to discuss perhaps that is why she has not wanted to talk.... this is not easy for either of you.
