How do I find my old self? And better myself to be the man I used to be?
So my fiancée and I have been together for 9 months now. When we first met I was such a great guy and we got along so great. Now l've changed for the worst. I struggle with communication, keeping my cool, learning to think before I talk and stop letting the little things bother me. I never really struggled with this. She has told me things to help but they don't. I just want to get better and change before something bad happens between us because I truly love her!
@nads1124
what did you change when you got engaged ? .... your post seems to suggest you are monitoring your words and thoughts...... she TOLD you things to do is a strong sentence...... as oppose she made suggestions....
You are correct in assuming if you do not feel you can be yourself sooner or later things will erupt or you will feel more lost and uncomfortable with yourself. You can love someone but changing yourself to do it. I would suggest clear and frank conversations if you feel that you are finding your views being dismissed or you are afraid to share in case she does not agree ....
@nads1124 Why were you a great guy then and not now? What changed?
