How do I stop caring so much
Long story short, my gfs parents don't treat her well and she's been scared to confront then up until recently she says.
I would always make comments about them because they treated me and her both horribly not showing either of us any empathy for stuff going on in life. She broke up with me because my comments and how I get mad when she let's them control her.
How do I learn to swallow comments about the inlaws. I want to change and like, stop caring so much, buy I love her more than love itself and she doesn't believe that because I don't plan dates(I'm in school and the textbook definition of a broke college student) and haven't had time to plan stuff cuz school is 24/7 stress. I also had to share cars with my parents that would always. interfere. I just got my own car in November and I have until March left of school.
Anyone seeing this, just know I'm crazy about this girl, but she thinks she isn't a priority to me because I don't plan dates snd haven't been able to pick up and go see her whenever I wanted because I didn't have my own car yet...as if im choosing to not see her
How do I stop caring and learn to cope with her parents *** talk behind my back and just let then slide and keep my comments about them to myself
It just kills me how after 2 years she still doesn't think she's a priority to me because I've been stuck between a rock and a hard place both with school and at home and her parents
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I obviously will plan dates and stuff after I'm don't with classes because I won't have school down my throat every 2 seconds of my life, and I also have my own car now. I don't even like to talk about potential dates with her right now because I know school will end up getting in the way until March when I finish, its like showing a prize knowing i can't have, id rather not see it all until I can have it you know? And not get her hopes up jist to have school screw both of us....but all she thinks is she's not a priority to me.....like she made me want to have her child.....idk how else to tell her I love her and just need another 2 months of being boring so I can focus on school and finally start to live
@toughPapaya1551 *after I'm done