How do i keep trying when we are both constantly getting mad at eachother
Ive been with my girlfriend for two years, and at this point we just keep hurting each other more and more. We are complete opposites. Shes more if an intro and im more of an extro.
Recently we’ve been fighting more and more, And i feel like i have fallen out of love for her. Yesterday she told me she doesnt want to love me anymore and it honestly felt like i emotionally broke up with her.
everything we fight about is something to do with my friends that i have met way before her, and every time i mention going out without her (which is once twice a month at max) she freaks out and starts trying to keep me away from the outside world. I want to explore and do things like hike and spend time away.
Even though i feel like i reassure her in any way i can, i still feel like its never enough for her.
I like spending time with my friends and i love them like if they were my brothers and sisters, but she never seems to understand that.
In the past there have been very few times where i yelled at her because i didnt want to express on how i feel. But now i just feel like giving up and i feel like she has too…
can anyone please tell me what to do
@JDS741651
Communication is a major relationship issue. If you want to keep trying there needs to be a real deep understanding that being with your friends and getting out and doing things is important to you you enjoys it and will continue..............This should not be an issue each time you make plans etc.
She would need to share deep feelings of why she wants to away from others and stay isolated. many times couples just fix what is happening right now only for it to happen again the next time etc.
going around in circles playing the same issue over gets old ... we are sometimes shy of sharing our true deep feeling to spare the other person but as someone who did that for a long time it does not help having things go OK for a week or two then back to square one ....
does suck the feelings right out of of relationship.
