How do you build up trust again
My partner didn’t fully cheat on me but exchange messages and picture for 2 days with someone on *** at the start of the relationship (first 3 weeks) he then nearly a year into the relationship message friend he has who does onlyfans, in the message it mentioned seeing her post on onlyfans, when confronted claimed he didn’t have it it was he saw screenshot from Reddit from her account yet when checking emails he was getting this subscription is ending emails after he claimed he deleted only fans months ago.
i don't know how to build trust again or stop worrying or being paranoid
@gurldul hi there. thank you for sharing this with the community
i hear you, i can understand how hurtful that must've been for your relationship with your partner and how it's broken your trust in them :(
If you find out please let me know I have a very similar situation to yours. We were long distance in the first 2 years of our relationship and when we moved in together I found out very soon he went on a date and perused a girl within the first 3 months of our relationship. Also I found out he was addicted to porn and watched it our entire relationship so I definitely need help learning how to trust again.
In the first months of a relationship i feel many things are not settled and sometimes the urge to talk to or even a date because they are worried about settling into a committed relationship. THIS is normal or use to be too many feel some sort of ownership even after a few months or few dates... this is a way to set them up to want to look around... Confidence in you are a catch and he is lucky to be there is far more attractive then spying in CASE he even looks at someone.
BOTTOM LINE ... they stayed with YOU....
I do think many make too much over this and need to see being HIS or HER choice is better then they are just stuck and captive and in trouble if they even speak to anyone their partner views as a threat.
