@passionateEast3565
if you wish to get rid of this type in your life. it takes resolve. it means complete shut out. no contact, forget my number, and do not bother me again.
Many people who have not been successful in getting rid of this type is because they let their guard down and gave them not only a second chance but chance after chance.
This also happens if this person has mutual friends sometimes it takes letting go of those friends too who cannot support your wishes to have no contact with the abusive person. I know it feels lonely if you must walk away for a time but often making new friends with a new group is what is needed.