How to talk with women's...
Guys I need someone help. As a men am just being terrified to talk to women's to fix this.I there a situation to talk to girls am being pressured to continue a conversation i can't be myself to talk there wtf I can do nowð¥²
@wallflowerloki
I'm a woman. Would you mind if I answer?
One way to approach this would be to write down all the worst possible outcomes eg the girl laughs at you. Or, the girl tells her friends about you and they all laugh at you. And then think of the best possible outcome. Eg you find out she has the same hobby and the two of you can't stop talking for 30 minutes. The most likely outcome is somewhere between those two extremes. When we spell out the extremes, often we realise that we could survive it.
I don't think you are alone in this. Anxiety about talking to the opposite sex can be quite common. And very common in some cultures. I wonder, might the girl be equally anxious? Might focusing on how to help her be more comfortable take the focus off you a bit?
Good luck.
