Husband and sister
So idk how to get over this. My husband of 16 years has had a relationship with my sister for the past year and a half. They refuse to show me all the messages and expect me to believe it was nothing but what I have discovered he was telling her stuff like her smile is worth millions, he would do anything to make her happy, sending her hundreds of dollars. As well as talking crap about me.
@unknown79364
This must be double shocking... the betrayal of both of them.
how are you doing? it must be a jumble of emotions.
@unknown79364
I think you have no choice but to leave them. Honestly, it's terrible, but there's no need to try to figure it out, it's all clear. So just leave them, and after that, try to somehow come to your senses, because you deserve good people and a good life, really. I hope you can work it out!
@unknown
Hi, thanks for reaching out. It sounds like they deserve one another if they can do this to you. I’d say leave them to it, but of course I don’t know your circumstances, kids, etc.
So sorry, you deserve so much better.
@unknown79364
I am sorry to hear that 😢 You must be going through a really tough time...
I think it would be both indelicate and useless to ask you how far your husband's infidelity and your sister's disloyalty did go... If you already know the basic facts, I believe seeing any more evidence could only bring you more pain.
As the other person said: we are not aware of your entire situation (family, home, kids). But it sounds to me like a deal-breaker...