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I am struggling to feel something but I can't

User Profile: brightDay6709
brightDay6709 March 31st, 2025

I recently found out that the girl I’ve had strong feelings for, but never confessed to, is in a serious relationship with someone else. The past few days have been brutal, but today, I finally started to feel like I was moving on. Yet now, all of a sudden, I feel nothing, no pain, no sadness, no anger, no laughter. It’s as if I’ve completely shut down.

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User Profile: RainbowRosie
RainbowRosie April 5th, 2025

@brightDay6709

Be kind to yourself. It’s likely the numbness will fade in time and you’ll heal from it.

User Profile: ghhhhvvcd
ghhhhvvcd April 5th, 2025

Your situation really shocked you emotionally and physically. That's just unexpected but If you really love her then let her go you must not force her to like you, she choose this way so you gotta accept it. Remove her from your mind, focus on yourself. You also deserve to be loved brother, maybe the right person will also come in the right time. But if you're patience enough then don't give your love to her, keep staying in her side withouth making a conflict with her partner, just be right there then learn how to unlove her.