I cheated
My bf forgave me for cheating on him but i need advice on how to forgive myself for what i did we are still together but i agreed to get help for myself and for him to trust me again
@elephants246
The best way IMO to overcome this is total honesty .... from both people. about how and why..... we let things slide or pretend it will get better........ until we are in a place where crossing a line does not see that big of a deal.
I believe any straying .......being emotional or physical ......... does NOT just happen ...... many times (again IMO) people do not address the core .... they do not say for example ... "that you had lost the emotional connection or felt totally rejected and hurt ... then felt the situation was not repairable "
They do not dig deep to know where/ how the disconnect happened .... in that environment is when a person .. you can confide in or be vulnerable to ...... may want to fill the void you feel .
make sure in your mind....... you KNOW what it was then you can forgive yourself and move on.
Thank u!
may be first understand why you did what you did. what was the reason and what is the chance of that reason to re-emerge.
