Idk where this is headed
Recently my boyfriend and i had a fight about him not giving me enough time. He ended up saying that he feels suffocated and that I like to control his schedule. It hit me hard, I never actually wanted to do that because Ive felt this way in my past relationship and I would never want to make someone feel like I did.
I felt like since then ive noticed myself becoming more distant and it scares me. Ive been calling way less and haven’t been asking to hang out much either. We used to sleep on call together but Ive stopped doing that too. I don’t really feel bad about it for some reason but it makes me question where this is actually headed
@ani01205
yeah its tuff to manage that good enough space in relationships where both involved feel as loved and their needs attended to
how does he feel about your distance lately?
maybe you two can take out time to discuss this and express how you feel...sometimes we get inside a comfy shell when we start feeling nonchalant or ok with the bare minimum or less than usual too... it's a good time to have an open chat with your partner and figure what you guys feel about each other and how you wish to address the distance and move forward through it :)
@Optimisticempath I second this. Have a talk. Don't let the resentment grow but adress it head on. Remember, it is you two against the problem, not against each other. You got this 😊🌻
@sadcat13 you two against problem and not each other...vv wise thing to say kitty friend thankyou 💕💕
@Optimisticempath I heard it somewhere as someone sharing best marriage advice they received and it really helped me a lot too 😊